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Ruth's avatar

Thank you. I relate completely.

SC Godfrey's avatar

❤️❤️❤️

Diana Urban's avatar

I can’t even properly describe how much I appreciate this post. I’m glad you’re in a better place now and I hope you feel better still, and I’m so grateful to you for sharing this extremely relatable piece. 🫶

SC Godfrey's avatar

Thank you much, Diana. I have good days and bad, currently good, and I appreciate the support so, so much. 🥹❤️

Taryn C. Fehrer's avatar

I 1000% agree. I went through something similarly life altering just a few years ago and came out feeling the same way. You worded it beautifully!!

Lily Williams's avatar

This is so brave of you to post. I want you to know you're not alone in any of this. The instagram versus reality of it all makes it seem like we all handle what we're doing with ease... when we aren't.💜

SC Godfrey's avatar

Thank you so much, Lily. I really appreciate that. You’re absolutely right that social media makes it worse.

Lauren Parvizi's avatar

This is such an important post. Thank you for being vulnerable with all of us 💓💓

SC Godfrey's avatar

Thank you my friend ❤️

Gina Banks's avatar

Proud of you for sharing this, which will undoubtedly help others going through something similar. Proud to call you a friend and can’t wait to celebrate The Enigma Challenge on August 11. ❤️❤️

SC Godfrey's avatar

Thank you my beautiful friend 🥹❤️

Robyn Field's avatar

And now you have a cup of coffee my friend 🩷 So proud of you and proud to know you!

SC Godfrey's avatar

You too ❤️

Holly James's avatar

The comparison crashout at the end is so valid 😅

Andrea Burnett's avatar

Such a thoughtful post, Sierra. As your friend, and as a book publicist who's seen how emotionally demanding publishing can be, I really felt this. I know how hard this has been for you, and I also know you're far from alone. There are so many people in your corner, cheering you on and ready to hold your hand (or hand-held fan!) whenever you need it. Thank you for sharing this with such honesty and vulnerability. I have no doubt your words will make others feel a little less alone.

SC Godfrey's avatar

Thank you my friend ❤️

Diane Roth's avatar

What an incredible post, my friend. I am so SO impressed by how you pushed through your anxiety over this past year. It's amazing that you set those goals for yourself and met them. You are an INSPIRATION!!! Thank you for sharing your journey.

Also, it's easy for me to tell you not to worry about your launch, but you know what? You've already conquered so much in the past year, there's nothing about this launch that matters more than the journey you're taking to get yourself there. And I feel like everything I've ever read about these things suggests that they aren't crucial to the success of your book anyway. It's a wonderful event, and it matters because it feels like a beginning, but that's what it is -- a beginning! You'll be great there, I just know it! But the stakes aren't high because what matters is that your book will be out in the world and you'll have so many moments to interact with readers, even from the comfort of home.

I am SO looking forward to reading The Enigma Challenge!! And cheering you on way beyond the book launch!! Sending you loads of hugs. ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

SC Godfrey's avatar

Thanks Diane ❤️ I must admit I haven’t quite pushed through it but I’m better, and I’ll take it.

Diane Roth's avatar

Absolutely. Wishing you continued success as you continue to make your way through it. xox

Maggie North's avatar

Love you dear one <3 you are brave and good!

SC Godfrey's avatar

As are you ❤️❤️❤️

Mara Williams's avatar

Thanks for sharing this, Sierra. Anxiety is such a liar, but such a convincing one. I'll be there cheering you on. 🩷

SC Godfrey's avatar

Appreciate you,Mara! ❤️

James Garcia Jr's avatar

Cheering you on, Sierra. We’re in the valley near Fresno. Close enough to maybe turn up for one of those in person events. Who knows? 😊

SC Godfrey's avatar

Thank you! Stay cool out there

James Garcia Jr's avatar

I’ll try. How’s the weather in SF? Wait! Don’t tell me. 😂 We’re hoping to get away to Monterrey before the month is over, before my teacher wife has to get back in that class. Hopefully. Cheers, new friend.

SC Godfrey's avatar

Yeah it’s freezing cold here in the mornings so bring sweaters to Monterey! 🥶 😂

James Garcia Jr's avatar

Thanks! My wife took some to Ireland last month and never got to wear them because it was warmer than we expected.

Laura Cristina Platas's avatar

Wow!! Such an important post, Sierra. I had a lot of ‘me too’ moments! Thank you for being honest and sharing the vulnerability.

Camille Pagán's avatar

This is so great—thank you for sharing. And I truly believe we don't have to (in fact, shouldn't) do "all the things" for every book we put into the world.

SC Godfrey's avatar

Thanks Camille. I would love to hear more of your thoughts on the not doing all the things for a book launch. We get so caught up in launches that it’s hard to see that it’s a long tail, not a short burst.

Margot Harrison's avatar

Thank you for sharing this, and I’m sending good thoughts for your launch. When my debut was published ten years ago, it kicked off the worst anxiety episode of my life so far. Summer is always worse for me, and right now I’m out of contract and on sub, so I KNOW I’m in the Disliked Authors bin, lol. I’m hoping that making a transition to self-publishing will eventually relieve some of these feelings, though of course anything can trigger anxiety.

SC Godfrey's avatar

I’m so sorry. But I’m glad you’re on sub again (it’s better than having your agent go “nope” to the ms right?). Thanks for the good wishes, right back at you.